Richard,I am beginning to realise that it is what to leave out that is the important thing,not just what to just include,I do not just mean any of the many mistakes that I have made in my life which will be highlighted but the sheer volume of material at hand ,I have a huge heap of photographs to sift through today and collate in order of year,this is going to take some time so this is what I have decided to do-firstly my fathers piece will be completed ,I considered this so important to the way my own life evolved that it was well worth including notwithstanding his interesting military service life,then I will have to pause to prepare my own bits and pieces,it is the only way because to include a full appraisal without setting it down as notes first will be impossible,believe me memory does play some tricks ! so I beg eveyones patience but can assure you that the wait will be worth it,have no fear it will be completed here.
Another interesting aspect to this is about a year before he passed away I sat down one day and interviewd him,at first he was reluctant to say too much in any detail but after a while this very private man came forth,thank goodness that I did this because researching his life would have been very difficult otherwise,thankfully he never threw much away ( a bit like myself ) and tiny bits of paper have revealed and confirmed important dates,thus tracking his life has been made a lot easier,now my wife has just pointed out to me that she knows nothing of her fathers army life,so in this respect I am very fortunate,my advice to everyone is get your loved ones history now while you are able to,and once more make sure that valuable records and photographs are not destroyed when the day comes to sort out those chattels,it can and does happen,if it had not been for myself being around then everything would have gone down the tip,do not let this happen,this is social history being vandalised.
Having said this I urge anyone to sit down and have a go themselves,you will find it a most rewarding exercise.
Another interesting aspect to this is about a year before he passed away I sat down one day and interviewd him,at first he was reluctant to say too much in any detail but after a while this very private man came forth,thank goodness that I did this because researching his life would have been very difficult otherwise,thankfully he never threw much away ( a bit like myself ) and tiny bits of paper have revealed and confirmed important dates,thus tracking his life has been made a lot easier,now my wife has just pointed out to me that she knows nothing of her fathers army life,so in this respect I am very fortunate,my advice to everyone is get your loved ones history now while you are able to,and once more make sure that valuable records and photographs are not destroyed when the day comes to sort out those chattels,it can and does happen,if it had not been for myself being around then everything would have gone down the tip,do not let this happen,this is social history being vandalised.
Having said this I urge anyone to sit down and have a go themselves,you will find it a most rewarding exercise.