Bad Day

[Guest]

Decided as we are running out of money to down size.

Very sad & Pauline is upset but guessed. So I am upset as well. Should have done this last year but chickened out.

Just had to share this but things will come right I am sure. Have enough equity & hope we can find a place where 74 year olds can rest in peace for the remainder of our years.

Please do not feel sorry for us it just helps to share these things. We are lucky when you look at some parts of the world. We have a strong family guarding us.

Laurie

[spanner570]

Laurie, I fully understand how you are feeling. You must be in an emotional fizz.

My wife and I are in exactly the same situation. When we built our place we had two sons with us.....Both married and moved out some 20 odd yrs ago.

We too should have moved out years ago to something smaller, but we too chickened out. It was, and is our home....

We both know we should move to a smaller place, but can't pluck up the courage to do so.

So Laurie, well done on having the balls to make what is a heart wrenching decision. It's something my wife and I are going to have to do soon I know, and are dreading it....

All the very best for the future to you and your wife, and good luck in your search for your new home, I'm sure you will soon find something soon, settle in and have the kettle on in no time at all..

Cheers,

Ron

[Guest]

Shows the bond you both have .... making the decision together.

Logically it sounds right, but i know what a hassle moving can be as i relocated just over 3 years ago, there will always be a small part of you both that will have a "what if" thought.

The main thing is you have each other to rely on which should make the whole episode easier.

I (and the other members) can't do anything physically but you should know you both have my (our) moral support.

[AlanG]

I (and the other members) can't do anything physically but you should know you both have my (our) moral support.

Ditto to Colin's comment

[Guest]

My Mum & Dad went through this several years ago, and I never thought they would get over it, they had been in the same house for Forty years.

In the end it turned out to be a really good decision, they ended up getting a small flat on a complex for the over 50's. It was less work for them to maintain, a lot easier and cheaper to heat, and their social life improved. Neither of them would have gone back in the end.

It's an awful thing to have to contemplate, but you never know, It might work out to be for the better.

Again ditto to Colin's comment, I can only imagine how worried you are, the only thing I have experienced that comes close is When my Wife an I both got made redundant at the same time (We both worked for the same firm) - I thought we were going to lose our house for a while and it was a frightening and stressfull time.

All the best mate.

[Guest]

Wow Gaz Allyne Colin & Ron.

Very nice comments & thanks for the great support. It is very much appreciated.

Do not use off words much but it is a damn nice crowd on this forum.

Laurie

[BarryW]

I feel for you both Laurie.

As a financial adviser (investment, not mortgage I hastily add) I see a lot of people in a similar position these days, they have ended up there for a wide number of reasons. It is so important to make a decision and only too easy for people to 'let it go' in the hope of better times or 'something will turn up'.

Now you have made the decision and when the transition is complete hopefully you will both feel a lot better about things...

Just make sure that you still have somewhere to build your models in the new home though!!!

[yak face]

Laurie , i can only reinforce the support and positive feelings of the other members, we're all sending our best wishes to you both. Im sure things will turn out fine, think of it as an exciting new adventure!With the help of the family,you'll be settled in no time, just make sure theres enough room for a modellers corner!! All the very best , tony

[Alan 45]

it must be terrible for you both , I havnt had this happen yet as I always wanted to move from where I lived but where we live now will be heart wrenching when we have to move from where we are now.

I hope you find a place that you both love my thoughts are with both of you at this difficult time.

[michaelm]

Hi Laurie, I can understand how this must be very hard for you and your wife and I'd just like to add my voice to all those offering you best wishes.

Good luck with the house hunt, I'm sure you'll find somewhere very nice and all the best to your good lady.

Michael

[Guest]

Thanks Barry Tony Alan & Michael.

Very kind & much appreciated.

Laurie

[Guest]

I was in the same situation a couple of years ago and remember the feeling of dread and how mortal it made us feel. Remember, your leaving bricks and mortar behind, your memories will always be with you with many more memories to come.

Danny

[Guest]

Thanks Danny very nice.

Laurie

[Guest]

Just last night you answered my silly little model question in a kind and gracious manner and with this hanging over your head,very classy. If the impending move relieves some financial stress from your life you may find a silver lining. All the Best

[Ian M]

Well I guess that you and the good lady will be staying in the island so you will still be in a great place.

When my father passed, my mum sold the family home of 20 years and moved to Minehead in Somerset, to a nice little bungalow with a smaller garden. She was a bit sad when she had to give up the dog, but other than that she has never looked back.

I am sure that you will both be up and 'em in no time. Keep us posted and remember you can always find someone here to talk with.

Ian M