Well I've finally done it

[john i am]

Only you and your good lady can decided what course of action to take now. I'd have a good talk between yourselves before making a final decision .


If you do decide to stay you need to negotiate new terms and conditions of your employment. My working hrs over a week amount to 37hrs your should be the same mon-fri or any 5 days from 7.


Specify when your working day starts and finishes and anything after that will be recognised as overtime. And don't be called upon by her for anymore silly errands only stuff deemed as an emergency. Give it a few weeks and see how it goes and if your still unhappy you can secretly look for another job and you will still have all your savings in the bank. Whatever option you choose I wish both of you good luck

[Guest]

Well right or wrong decision made my missus has been up half the night crying, I can't have that, I've told her I will go back, but that she should be prepared for this happening again and next time there will be no going back, we will just have to wait and see if my boss keeps her word.

[Guest]

Hard times, happiness in your work is hard to find. this is a level worse than most deal with.


I Hope things work out for you but I think you should tell the wife it's for the best for you and your dignity and your relationship and it will be better in the long run to leave. At the very least I'd be looking for a new job in the mean time but personally I think you made the right decision to leave.


Best of luck

[dave]

Hope it works out for you.

[grumpa]

Well right or wrong decision made my missus has been up half the night crying, I can't have that, I've told her I will go back, but that she should be prepared for this happening again and next time there will be no going back, we will just have to wait and see if my boss keeps her word.

Seems as though she may have seen the error of her ways, but more than likely a calculated business decision, {hubby may also have put his foot down} brought about by your tough stand and willingness to chuck it if need be. Don't scoff at my "time clock" and structured work schedule suggestion, just explain to her {nicely} that it would keep all involved on the up and up and greatly reduce conflict and stress. Good luck my friend and give the Missus a hug.................Jim

[Guest]

Thanks for all the support, I really hope this works, but tbh I very much doubt it, as I said to my missus I would not do this for anyone else and will never do it again.