discussion Some Bad News

[Strenko J]

Dave
prayers for you and your family… hope for a better outcome after treatment.

 

[Dave Ward]

Now have an appointment for a MRI scan on the 15th, next week is going to be busy.
Actually think I may try to get back to the bench, just sitting here isn't helping. I've been searching in the stash for something to take my fancy, but no luck so far - something simple? or something more complicared? Probably going to be a 1/35 AFV, but I may suddenly find a promising candidate
Dave

 

[Jim R]

I think getting back to the bench would be a helpful move. As you say just sitting doesn't help. I know it must be hard to concentrate and not to dwell on the illness but it would be of benefit I'm sure.
Good news about the MRI scan appointment.
All the best Dave

 

[adt70hk]

Good to hear things are moving quickly Dave. And pleased to hear that you're thinking of returning to the bench.

 

[Richard48]

Now have an appointment for a MRI scan on the 15th, next week is going to be busy.
Actually think I may try to get back to the bench, just sitting here isn't helping. I've been searching in the stash for something to take my fancy, but no luck so far - something simple? or something more complicared? Probably going to be a 1/35 AFV, but I may suddenly find a promising candidate
Dave

Glad to hear you want to return to the bench Dave.I just cant get into modelling at all.Bought so much for i guess retail therapy but over 100 kits in a flat is not good.There are so many of us on here who care and never forget that.We are a PM away as ever.
All the very best from Rich and Helen

 

[Dave Ward]

Finally beginning to sink in ................. can't say it's improving things, I hope the iron infusion will alleviate some of the anaemia symptoms - I find myself nodding off at all hours, and feel dizzy when I stand up, and not able to concentrate for long.
I've been scanning the stash - I've pulled out a HobbyBoss Pz.IV Ausf.C ( ex TriStar ), a Zvezda StuG IV, and an ICM Laffly Panhard 178 ( also boxed by Tamiya ), haven't made up my mind yet - they range from complicated ( HB ) to quite simple ( Zvezda )
Dave

 

[grumpa]

That's the spirit David, too much dwelling can have negative phycological effects, for the family as well as the patient
Think of your poor wife, who is hurting more than you know, give her a smile and take her hand, try and be positive
about your treatments. Cancer is no longer the death sentence it used to be, modern medicine is wonderous nowadays.
While I would never seek to try to understand how one feels when receiving such devastating news.
I do know what it feels like to lose a young child, our first little boy was born with a hole in his heart.
Almost fifty years ago medicine was very primitive compared to today....there was nothing they could do for him
then.....he only lasted three weeks.:crying:

Jim

 

[PaulTRose]

, haven't made up my mind yet - they range from complicated ( HB ) to quite simple ( Zvezda )
Dave

Go for the simple
Less complicated = less frustration/confusion/quicker build
And to finish something will give satisfaction......and proof that you can still do it......and will give you a mental boost

 

[Jim R]

I would think a simple kit is the way to go. I hope the treatment alleviates the dizziness and tiredness.

 

[Dave Ward]

That's the spirit David, too much dwelling can have negative phycological effects, for the family as well as the patient
Think of your poor wife, who is hurting more than you know, give her a smile and take her hand, try and be positive
about your treatments. Cancer is no longer the death sentence it used to be, modern medicine is wonderous nowadays.
While I would never seek to try to understand how one feels when receiving such devastating news.
I do know what it feels like to lose a young child, our first little boy was born with a hole in his heart.
Almost fifty years ago medicine was very primitive compared to today....there was nothing they could do for him
then.....he only lasted three weeks.:crying:

Jim

Think of your poor wife,

Traded in wife 30+ years ago for peace & quiet!
Dave

 

[Richard48]

Finally beginning to sink in ................. can't say it's improving things, I hope the iron infusion will alleviate some of the anaemia symptoms - I find myself nodding off at all hours, and feel dizzy when I stand up, and not able to concentrate for long.
I've been scanning the stash - I've pulled out a HobbyBoss Pz.IV Ausf.C ( ex TriStar ), a Zvezda StuG IV, and an ICM Laffly Panhard 178 ( also boxed by Tamiya ), haven't made up my mind yet - they range from complicated ( HB ) to quite simple ( Zvezda )
Dave

Im sure your diabetes added to the equation doesnt help.I struggle in the warm weather.Nice to see you trying to contemplate doing a model.Wish i could summon up some sort of enthusiasm to even start a kit.
Wish you well.
Richard

 

[Dave Ward]

diabetes added to the equation doesnt

Yes, it adds a layer of problems, the doses I had to take in preparation for a colonoscopy really had an effect on my blood sugars. It took me about a week to really get back to normal. This week, the scans are non-invasive, so that won't need any long preparations...................
Hot weather is a problem, I keep well hydrated, which really helps
Dave

 

[Richard48]

That's the spirit David, too much dwelling can have negative phycological effects, for the family as well as the patient
Think of your poor wife, who is hurting more than you know, give her a smile and take her hand, try and be positive
about your treatments. Cancer is no longer the death sentence it used to be, modern medicine is wonderous nowadays.
While I would never seek to try to understand how one feels when receiving such devastating news.
I do know what it feels like to lose a young child, our first little boy was born with a hole in his heart.
Almost fifty years ago medicine was very primitive compared to today....there was nothing they could do for him
then.....he only lasted three weeks.:crying:

Jim

Thats so sad to read Jim.Must have been just worst monents of your life.So very sorry to read that.
Bless you from Richard

 

[yak face]

Only just seen this , sorry to hear that Dave , as others have said keep a positive attitude and were all sending best wishes , cheers tony

 

[Dave Ward]

It's been a difficult week, between the diabetes, anemia, hospital visits, and the hot weather, I've been lacking any energy to do anything. I went for an iron infusion today for the anemia, they said I should start feeling better after 2-3 days, but it could take up to 4 weeks for the full benefits to take effect.
Just waiting on the results of the scans now. I cannot praise the NHS too much, they've been fast, professional, human, & kept me informed. Essentially, though I'm still in limbo...............
Dave

 

[Jim R]

Hang on in there Dave. You're in the system and everyone is working hard for you. I'm sure you'll turn the corner soon and see some positive progress.

 

[rtfoe]

Hang in there Dave, the medication will have to take it's time to work. Build only when you feel like it...I'm on the other side of the spectrum, the more difficult the build and the more challenge to get it right spurs the mind and body to persevere. Completing it is the goal. Go for it.

Richard Wabble

 

[Dave Ward]

For the first time, in a month or two, I actually haven't fallen asleep in the afternoon! I do feel that the iron infusion for the anemia is beginning to take effect, fingers crossed.................
Dave

 

[tr1ckey66]

Hi Dave
I’ve just caught up with this and it is terrible news. I’m glad the iron infusion is working and you have more energy and I hope future treatments go well and you beat this. Keeping yourself occupied (now that you have more energy) might be the best thing. Choose a kit and dive in!
We’re all with you.

Cheers
P

 

[Jim R]

Not falling asleep. A small step but an important step in your recovery. Progress is often one small step after another. I wish you all the best Dave.